{"id":366,"date":"2026-06-25T12:43:16","date_gmt":"2026-06-25T09:43:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/?p=366"},"modified":"2026-06-25T12:43:16","modified_gmt":"2026-06-25T09:43:16","slug":"kime-gore-normal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/2026\/06\/25\/kime-gore-normal\/","title":{"rendered":"Kime g\u00f6re normal?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Bazen bize tuhaf gelen \u015fey, yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in de\u011fil; sadece al\u0131\u015f\u0131k olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7indir.<\/em><\/p>\n

Bug\u00fcn hen\u00fcz yeni tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m, 75 ya\u015flar\u0131nda bir a\u011fabeyle yakla\u015f\u0131k \u00fc\u00e7 saat birlikte vakit ge\u00e7irdim.<\/p>\n

Birbirimizi yeni tan\u0131yorduk.<\/p>\n

O benim ya\u015fam tarz\u0131m\u0131 bilmiyor…<\/p>\n

\u00d6\u011f\u00fcn yerine t\u00fcketti\u011fim besleyici kar\u0131\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131…<\/p>\n

\u00c7ay ve kahve yerine i\u00e7ti\u011fim bitkisel i\u00e7ece\u011fi…<\/p>\n

G\u00fcn i\u00e7inde kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131m besin takviyelerini…<\/p>\n

Ve en \u00f6nemlisi de bol su i\u00e7me al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131…<\/p>\n

Do\u011fal olarak bunlar\u0131n sonucunda g\u00fcn i\u00e7inde tuvalete daha s\u0131k gitmemi de…<\/p>\n

Yakla\u015f\u0131k \u00fc\u00e7 saat i\u00e7inde \u00fc\u00e7 kez k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck tuvalete gittim.<\/p>\n

D\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde y\u00fcz\u00fcme dikkatlice bakt\u0131.<\/p>\n

Biraz da endi\u015feli bir ses tonuyla sordu:<\/p>\n

\u2014 Ali, ne kadar \u00e7ok tuvalete gidiyorsun… Hasta m\u0131s\u0131n yoksa?<\/p>\n

G\u00fcl\u00fcmsedim.<\/p>\n

\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc onun g\u00f6z\u00fcnde normal olan, g\u00fcnde bir iki defa tuvalete gitmekti.<\/p>\n

Benim yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m ise ona g\u00f6re normal de\u011fildi.<\/p>\n

Eve d\u00f6nerken bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck diyalog zihnimde b\u00fcy\u00fcmeye ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n

Asl\u0131nda hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde buna ne kadar s\u0131k rastl\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n

Kendi al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 “normal” kabul ediyoruz.<\/p>\n

Bizim yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z do\u011fru geliyor.<\/p>\n

Bizim ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z do\u011fal geliyor.<\/p>\n

Bizim d\u00fczenimiz \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fc oluyor.<\/p>\n

Sonra da o \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcye uymayan herkesi \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131kla izliyoruz.<\/p>\n

Kimisi erken kalkan\u0131 garipsiyor.<\/p>\n

Kimisi kitap okuyan\u0131…<\/p>\n

Kimisi hi\u00e7 televizyon izlemeyeni…<\/p>\n

Kimisi az konu\u015fan\u0131…<\/p>\n

Kimisi \u00e7ok konu\u015fan\u0131…<\/p>\n

Kimisi y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f yapan\u0131…<\/p>\n

Kimisi hi\u00e7 \u00e7ay i\u00e7meyeni…<\/p>\n

Kimisi de \u00fc\u00e7 saatte \u00fc\u00e7 defa tuvalete gideni…<\/p>\n

Oysa \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ortada garip olan bir durum yok.<\/p>\n

Sadece iki farkl\u0131 normal var.<\/p>\n

Belki de hayattaki bir\u00e7ok gereksiz yarg\u0131n\u0131n sebebi tam da bu.<\/p>\n

Kendi al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hayat\u0131, herkes i\u00e7in ge\u00e7erli san\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n

Oysa her insan, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 hayat\u0131n ortalamas\u0131n\u0131 “normal” kabul ediyor.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fte tam da bu y\u00fczden…<\/p>\n

Birini ele\u015ftirmeden \u00f6nce onun hayat\u0131n\u0131 bilmek gerekiyor.<\/p>\n

Bir davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 yad\u0131rgamadan \u00f6nce arkas\u0131ndaki sebebi \u00f6\u011frenmek gerekiyor.<\/p>\n

\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bazen farkl\u0131 olan yanl\u0131\u015f de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n

Sadece bizim al\u0131\u015f\u0131k olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu g\u00fcn bana “Hasta m\u0131s\u0131n?” diye soran a\u011fabey k\u00f6t\u00fc niyetli de\u011fildi.<\/p>\n

Sadece kendi normalinden bak\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n

Ben de d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm…<\/p>\n

Belki de hayat\u0131n olgunlu\u011fu, herkesi kendi \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclerimize benzetmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak de\u011fil; herkesin hayat\u0131n\u0131n farkl\u0131 bir dengesi olabilece\u011fini kabul edebilmektir.<\/p>\n

\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc anlay\u0131\u015f, insanlar\u0131n ayn\u0131 olmas\u0131ndan de\u011fil…<\/p>\n

Farkl\u0131 olabileceklerini kabul edebilmekten do\u011fuyor.<\/p>\n

\u00c7o\u011fu zaman bize tuhaf gelen \u015fey yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in de\u011fil, bizim normalimizin d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in tuhaf geliyor..<\/p>\n

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\u270d\ufe0fAli \u0130hsan Sivri hik\u00e2yeleri<\/em><\/p>\n

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Bazen bize tuhaf gelen \u015fey, yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in de\u011fil; sadece al\u0131\u015f\u0131k olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7indir. Bug\u00fcn hen\u00fcz yeni tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m, 75 ya\u015flar\u0131nda bir > Devam\u0131n\u0131 Oku<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[352,353,342,351],"class_list":["post-366","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bu-yoldan-gectim","tag-farkli-bakis-acilari","tag-normal-algisi","tag-on-yargi","tag-onyargi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/366","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=366"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/366\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":367,"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/366\/revisions\/367"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=366"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=366"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=366"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}