{"id":223,"date":"2026-05-03T21:37:22","date_gmt":"2026-05-03T18:37:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/?p=223"},"modified":"2026-05-16T18:40:05","modified_gmt":"2026-05-16T15:40:05","slug":"iyi-olmak-mi-yoksa-kendinden-vazgecmek-mi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/2026\/05\/03\/iyi-olmak-mi-yoksa-kendinden-vazgecmek-mi\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130yi olmak m\u0131&#8230; Yoksa kendinden vazge\u00e7mek mi?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Baz\u0131 insanlar vard\u0131r\u2026<\/p>\n<p>hep \u201ciyi\u201ddir.<\/p>\n<p>Kim ne isterse yapar\u2026<\/p>\n<p>kim \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rsa gider\u2026<\/p>\n<p>kim \u00fcz\u00fclse yan\u0131nda olur.<\/p>\n<p>D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan bak\u0131nca dersin ki:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNe kadar iyi biri\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ama insan biraz derine bak\u0131nca<\/p>\n<p>ba\u015fka bir \u015fey g\u00f6r\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>Yorgunluk.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o iyilik bazen ger\u00e7ekten kalpten de\u011fil\u2026<\/p>\n<p>yaln\u0131z kalmaktan korktu\u011fu i\u00e7indir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan bazen sevilmek i\u00e7in de\u011fil\u2026<\/p>\n<p>terk edilmemek i\u00e7in iyi olur.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHay\u0131r\u201d derse k\u0131r\u0131l\u0131rlar diye susar\u2026<\/p>\n<p>gitmek istemedi\u011fi yerlere gider\u2026<\/p>\n<p>yoruldu\u011funu s\u00f6yleyemez\u2026<\/p>\n<p>kendinden verir\u2026 verir\u2026 verir\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ve bir g\u00fcn fark eder:<\/p>\n<p>Verdik\u00e7e \u00e7o\u011falmam\u0131\u015f\u2026<\/p>\n<p>eksilmi\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc herkes iyili\u011fin k\u0131ymetini bilmiyor.<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131lar\u0131 al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Ve insan\u0131n s\u00fcrekli verdi\u011fi \u015fey\u2026<\/p>\n<p>bir s\u00fcre sonra g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez oluyor.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte insan tam o noktada<\/p>\n<p>\u00e7ok \u00f6nemli bir \u015feyi anl\u0131yor:<\/p>\n<p>\u0130yi olmak ba\u015fka\u2026<\/p>\n<p>kendinden vazge\u00e7mek ba\u015fka.<\/p>\n<p>Birine destek olmak g\u00fczel \u015fey\u2026<\/p>\n<p>ama kendini yok sayarak de\u011fil.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen insan\u0131n ger\u00e7ekten ihtiyac\u0131 olan \u015fey;<\/p>\n<p>bir kalabal\u0131\u011fa kar\u0131\u015fmak de\u011fil\u2026<\/p>\n<p>yaln\u0131z kal\u0131p biraz nefes almak oluyor.<\/p>\n<p>Ama s\u0131rf k\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131nlar diye<\/p>\n<p>istemedi\u011fi masalara oturuyor\u2026<\/p>\n<p>gitmek istemedi\u011fi yerlere gidiyor\u2026<\/p>\n<p>yoruldu\u011funu gizliyor.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa insan\u0131n bazen sadece \u015funu diyebilmesi gerekir:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBug\u00fcnl\u00fck ben iyi de\u011filim.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ve bu bencillik de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc s\u0131n\u0131r koymak\u2026<\/p>\n<p>k\u00f6t\u00fc olmak de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Aksine insan\u0131n hem kendine,<\/p>\n<p>hem kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakine d\u00fcr\u00fcst olmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Zaten ger\u00e7ekten yan\u0131nda kalmak isteyen insanlar\u2026<\/p>\n<p>sen her \u015feye \u201cevet\u201d dedi\u011fin i\u00e7in de\u011fil,<\/p>\n<p>sen oldu\u011fun i\u00e7in kal\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ve bazen insan\u0131n hayat\u0131ndaki en sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fim\u2026<\/p>\n<p>ilk kez i\u00e7inden gelmeyen bir \u015feye<\/p>\n<p>\u201chay\u0131r\u201d diyebilmesiyle ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 gidi\u015fler kay\u0131p de\u011fil\u2026<\/p>\n<p>y\u00fck hafiflemesidir.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>\u270d\ufe0f Ali ihsan Sivri hik\u00e2yeleri\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Baz\u0131 insanlar vard\u0131r\u2026 hep \u201ciyi\u201ddir. Kim ne isterse yapar\u2026 kim \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rsa gider\u2026 kim \u00fcz\u00fclse yan\u0131nda olur. 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