{"id":221,"date":"2026-05-02T00:04:02","date_gmt":"2026-05-01T21:04:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/?p=221"},"modified":"2026-05-16T18:41:21","modified_gmt":"2026-05-16T15:41:21","slug":"insan-bazi-insanlari-neden-sebepsizce-sever-ya-da-sevemez","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/2026\/05\/02\/insan-bazi-insanlari-neden-sebepsizce-sever-ya-da-sevemez\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130nsan baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131 neden sebepsizce sever&#8230; Ya da sevemez?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hani bazen bir insanla tan\u0131\u015f\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z\u2026<\/p>\n<p>O kadar tan\u0131d\u0131k, o kadar sizden gelir ki; sanki y\u0131llard\u0131r tan\u0131yormu\u015fsunuz gibi hissedersiniz\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Hatta kendi kendinize d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBiz bununla daha \u00f6nce bir yerde kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131k m\u0131 acaba?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Okullar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Askerlik an\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Oturulan mahalleleri\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ortak tan\u0131d\u0131klar\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ama \u00e7\u0131karamazs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Sanki ortada g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen bir tan\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131k vard\u0131r\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bazen de tam tersi olur.<\/p>\n<p>Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki insan\u0131n size yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 belirgin bir \u015fey yoktur asl\u0131nda\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ne konu\u015fmas\u0131 ters gelir, ne g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fc, ne tavr\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ama i\u00e7iniz bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc \u0131s\u0131nmaz ona.<\/p>\n<p>Hatta bazen yan\u0131nda fazla durmak bile istemezsiniz\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ruhunuz daral\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Hemen herkes ya\u015fam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r bu duyguyu\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ben de uzun y\u0131llar bunun nedenini tam anlamland\u0131ram\u0131yordum.<\/p>\n<p>Ta ki y\u0131llar \u00f6nce Japon ara\u015ft\u0131rmac\u0131 Masaru Emoto\u2019nun su kristalleri \u00fczerine yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 deneylerle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fana kadar\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Yakla\u015f\u0131k yirmi y\u0131l \u00f6nceydi\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Adapazar\u0131\u2019ndan Antalya\u2019ya otob\u00fcsle gidiyordum. Yol boyunca okuyay\u0131m diye bir kitap alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Gece otele ge\u00e7ti\u011fimde saat olduk\u00e7a ilerlemi\u015fti ama uykum yoktu.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBari kitab\u0131 bitireyim\u201d dedim.<\/p>\n<p>Sayfalar ilerledik\u00e7e kar\u015f\u0131ma Emoto\u2019nun deneyleri \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130lk ba\u015fta \u00e7ok da \u00fczerinde durmad\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Fakat foto\u011fraflar\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fck\u00e7e durup d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye ba\u015flad\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Deneylerde; farkl\u0131 s\u00f6zlere, farkl\u0131 duygulara maruz b\u0131rak\u0131lan su kristallerinin de\u011fi\u015fiminden bahsediliyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Sevgi, te\u015fekk\u00fcr, takdir gibi olumlu ifadelerle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fan suyun kristalleri daha estetik ve d\u00fczenli g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrken; \u00f6fke, hakaret ve nefret i\u00e7eren s\u00f6ylemlerde g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcler sertle\u015fiyor, bozuluyordu\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bilimsel taraf\u0131 y\u0131llard\u0131r tart\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131yor olabilir\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ama o gece beni etkileyen \u015fey deneyin teknik k\u0131sm\u0131ndan \u00e7ok, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc anlam olmu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir anda \u015funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm:<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan da b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde sudan olu\u015fuyorsa\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Acaba ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 duygular ger\u00e7ekten d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya yans\u0131yor olabilir miydi?<\/p>\n<p>Belki de baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131n yan\u0131na geldi\u011fimizde hissetti\u011fimiz huzurun\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda ise sebepsizce daralmam\u0131z\u0131n nedeni buydu\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Belki insan, i\u00e7inde ne ta\u015f\u0131yorsa fark\u0131nda olmadan onu yay\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130yi niyet ta\u015f\u0131yan biriyle konu\u015furken i\u00e7imizin rahatlamas\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>S\u00fcrekli \u00f6fke, kin ve karanl\u0131k ta\u015f\u0131yan birinin yan\u0131nda ise ruhumuzun s\u0131k\u0131lmas\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Belki de sadece bir tesad\u00fcf de\u011fildi.<\/p>\n<p>Zamanla \u015funu fark ettim:<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan, sadece y\u00fcz\u00fcyle de\u011fil\u2026<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleriyle de g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr oluyor.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u00e7inde s\u00fcrekli \u00f6fke ta\u015f\u0131yan biri, bunu saklamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsa bile bir yerde d\u0131\u015far\u0131 s\u0131zd\u0131r\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0131pk\u0131 huzurlu insanlar\u0131n fark edilmeden etrafa g\u00fcven vermesi gibi\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bu y\u00fczden art\u0131k \u015funa inan\u0131yorum:<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan \u00f6nce i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fczelle\u015ftirmeli.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc zihinden ge\u00e7en her d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Kurulan her c\u00fcmle\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ta\u015f\u0131nan her duygu\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bir \u015fekilde insan\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fcne, sesine, bak\u0131\u015f\u0131na ve hatta enerjisine yans\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Belki de bu y\u00fczden baz\u0131 insanlar ilk anda \u201cyabanc\u0131\u201d de\u011fil de \u201ctan\u0131d\u0131k\u201d geliyor bize\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Kim bilir\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Belki ruh, ruhu ger\u00e7ekten hissediyordur.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>\u270d\ufe0f Ali ihsan Sivri hik\u00e2yeleri\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hani bazen bir insanla tan\u0131\u015f\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z\u2026 O kadar tan\u0131d\u0131k, o kadar sizden gelir ki; 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