{"id":207,"date":"2026-04-25T01:44:51","date_gmt":"2026-04-24T22:44:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/?p=207"},"modified":"2026-05-16T23:08:36","modified_gmt":"2026-05-16T20:08:36","slug":"degisimin-acisi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/2026\/04\/25\/degisimin-acisi\/","title":{"rendered":"De\u011fi\u015fim ac\u0131t\u0131r&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\">De\u011fi\u015fmek kolay de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Hatta \u00e7o\u011fu zaman\u2026<\/p>\n<p>sanc\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc de\u011fi\u015fim\u2026<\/p>\n<p>sadece yeni bir \u015fey yapmak de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Eski seni b\u0131rakmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri\u2026<\/p>\n<p>g\u00fcvende hissetti\u011fin davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>hatta bazen seni sen yapan par\u00e7alar\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>geride b\u0131rakmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ve insan\u2026<\/p>\n<p>en \u00e7ok buna direnir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc tan\u0131d\u0131k olan\u2026<\/p>\n<p>her zaman daha g\u00fcvenli gelir.<\/p>\n<p>Ama ger\u00e7ek \u015fudur:<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcne kadar yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015feyleri yapmaya devam edersen\u2026<\/p>\n<p>bug\u00fcne kadar elde etti\u011fin sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 elde etmeye devam edersin.<\/p>\n<p>Hayat\u2026<\/p>\n<p>ayn\u0131 kal\u0131plarla de\u011fi\u015fmez.<\/p>\n<p>Ve insan\u2026<\/p>\n<p>ayn\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyle b\u00fcy\u00fcyemez.<\/p>\n<p>E\u011fer bulundu\u011fun noktadan memnun de\u011filsen\u2026<\/p>\n<p>ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n hayattan tatmin olmuyorsan\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u015fu an oldu\u011fun \u201csen\u201d i\u00e7ini doldurmuyorsa\u2026<\/p>\n<p>o zaman bir \u015feyleri de\u011fi\u015ftirmek zorundas\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>Ama de\u011fi\u015fim\u2026<\/p>\n<p>cesaret ister.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc do\u011fru olan\u0131 yapmak\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u00e7o\u011fu zaman kolay olan de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Ve do\u011fada bile bunun bir kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131 canl\u0131lar\u2026<\/p>\n<p>hayatlar\u0131na devam edebilmek i\u00e7in<\/p>\n<p>kendilerini yeniden \u015fekillendirmek zorunda kal\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Kartal\u2026<\/p>\n<p>belirli bir ya\u015ftan sonra<\/p>\n<p>ya oldu\u011fu gibi ya\u015famaya devam eder\u2026<\/p>\n<p>ya da yeniden do\u011fmay\u0131 se\u00e7er.<\/p>\n<p>Ama bu \u201cyeniden do\u011fu\u015f\u201d kolay de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Gagas\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131rar\u2026<\/p>\n<p>t\u0131rnaklar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ker\u2026<\/p>\n<p>kanatlar\u0131n\u0131 yeniler\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ac\u0131 \u00e7eker.<\/p>\n<p>Ama sonunda\u2026<\/p>\n<p>daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc, daha \u00f6zg\u00fcr bir h\u00e2le gelir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan da b\u00f6yledir.<\/p>\n<p>Ger\u00e7ek de\u011fi\u015fim\u2026<\/p>\n<p>konfor alan\u0131nda olmaz.<\/p>\n<p>Bir \u015feyleri k\u0131rmadan\u2026<\/p>\n<p>baz\u0131 al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131 s\u00f6kmeden\u2026<\/p>\n<p>eskiyi b\u0131rakmadan\u2026<\/p>\n<p>yenisi gelmez.<\/p>\n<p>Daha erken kalkmak zor gelir\u2026<\/p>\n<p>al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131 b\u0131rakmak zor gelir\u2026<\/p>\n<p>insanlara s\u0131n\u0131r koymak zor gelir\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ama kalmak\u2026<\/p>\n<p>daha zor.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan de\u011fi\u015fmedi\u011finde\u2026<\/p>\n<p>i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e s\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ve o s\u0131k\u0131\u015fma\u2026<\/p>\n<p>zamanla huzursuzlu\u011fa d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte bu y\u00fczden de\u011fi\u015fimin ac\u0131s\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>kalman\u0131n ac\u0131s\u0131ndan daha hafiftir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc biri seni b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcr\u2026<\/p>\n<p>di\u011feri seni yava\u015f yava\u015f t\u00fcketir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130lk ad\u0131m zor gelir.<\/p>\n<p>Ama att\u0131\u011f\u0131nda\u2026<\/p>\n<p>bir \u015fey de\u011fi\u015fir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u00e7inde k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir \u0131\u015f\u0131k yanar.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOluyor\u201d dersin.<\/p>\n<p>Ve o an anlars\u0131n:<\/p>\n<p>De\u011fi\u015fim ac\u0131t\u0131r\u2026<\/p>\n<p>ama ayn\u0131 kalmak daha \u00e7ok ac\u0131t\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ve belki de hayat\u0131n en net ger\u00e7e\u011fi \u015fudur:<\/p>\n<p>De\u011fi\u015fim\u2026<\/p>\n<p>seni bamba\u015fka biri yapmaz.<\/p>\n<p>Seni\u2026<\/p>\n<p>olman gereken ki\u015fiye yakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>\u270d\ufe0fAli ihsan Sivri hik\u00e2yeleri<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>De\u011fi\u015fmek kolay de\u011fildir. Hatta \u00e7o\u011fu zaman\u2026 sanc\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc de\u011fi\u015fim\u2026 sadece yeni bir \u015fey yapmak de\u011fildir. Eski seni b\u0131rakmakt\u0131r. Al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri\u2026<a href=\"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/2026\/04\/25\/degisimin-acisi\/\"> > Devam\u0131n\u0131 Oku<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[136,224,225,228,226,227],"class_list":["post-207","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bu-yoldan-gectim","tag-ali-ihsan-sivri","tag-degisim-acitir","tag-degismek-zor-mu","tag-eski-aliskanliklari-birakmak","tag-hayatini-degistirmek","tag-kendini-gelistirmek"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/207","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=207"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/207\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":268,"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/207\/revisions\/268"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=207"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=207"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=207"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}