\u0130nsana hep \u015funu \u00f6\u011fretirler:
\n\u201cVazge\u00e7me.\u201d
\nVe asl\u0131nda bu do\u011frudur.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7o\u011fu insan\u2026
\ntam olacakken b\u0131rak\u0131r.
\nBiraz daha sabretse\u2026
\nbiraz daha dirense\u2026
\nhayat\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fecekken vazge\u00e7er.
\nAma hayat sadece
\nvazge\u00e7memeyi de\u011fil\u2026
\nnerede vazge\u00e7memek gerekti\u011fini\u2026
\nve nerede vazge\u00e7menin gerekti\u011fini de \u00f6\u011fretir.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her devam etmek\u2026
\nilerlemek de\u011fildir.
\nBaz\u0131 \u015feyler vard\u0131r\u2026
\n\u0131srar ettik\u00e7e b\u00fcy\u00fcmez\u2026
\nsadece seni yorar.
\n\u0130\u015fte mesele tam da burada ba\u015flar:
\nDo\u011fru yerde direnebilmek\u2026
\nve do\u011fru yerde b\u0131rakabilmek.
\n\u0130nsan \u00e7o\u011fu zaman
\nbitmesi gereken \u015feyleri bile ta\u015f\u0131r.
\nBir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131\u2026
\nart\u0131k iyi gelmeyen bir ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131\u2026
\nyoran bir ili\u015fkiyi\u2026
\ni\u00e7ini daraltan bir i\u015fi\u2026
\nS\u0131rf \u201cb\u0131rakt\u0131m\u201d dememek i\u00e7in.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc vazge\u00e7mek\u2026
\ninsana \u201ckaybettim\u201d gibi gelir.
\nAma bir s\u00fcre sonra
\nba\u015fka bir \u015fey fark edilir:
\nHer devam edi\u015f\u2026
\nilerlemek de\u011fildir.
\nBazen sadece oyalanmakt\u0131r.
\nVe insan \u00e7o\u011fu zaman g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in de\u011fil\u2026
\nal\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in kal\u0131r.
\n\u0130\u015fte en zor soru da burada gelir:
\nBu ba\u011f m\u0131\u2026
\nyoksa al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k m\u0131?
\nSeviyor musun\u2026
\nyoksa yaln\u0131z kalmamak i\u00e7in mi tutunuyorsun?
\nBu i\u015f sana iyi mi geliyor\u2026
\nyoksa sadece g\u00fcvenli oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in mi devam ediyorsun?
\n\u0130nsan bu sorularla y\u00fczle\u015fti\u011finde\u2026
\ni\u00e7inde bir \u015fey netle\u015fmeye ba\u015flar.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek \u015fudur:
\nBaz\u0131 \u015feyler b\u0131rak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kay\u0131p gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr\u2026
\nama asl\u0131nda y\u00fckm\u00fc\u015f.
\nVe o y\u00fck gitti\u011finde\u2026
\ninsan ilk defa hafifler.
\n\u0130lk ba\u015fta bir bo\u015fluk olur.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u2026
\ninsan\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 doldurur.
\nAma zamanla o bo\u015fluk\u2026
\nyerini nefese b\u0131rak\u0131r.
\n\u0130nsan fark eder ki:
\nVazge\u00e7mek\u2026
\nher zaman kaybetmek de\u011fildir.
\nBazen kendine yer a\u00e7makt\u0131r.
\nYeniye\u2026
\ndaha do\u011fru olana\u2026
\ndaha sana ait olana.
\nVe belki de hayat\u0131n en net c\u00fcmlesi \u015fudur:
\nDo\u011fru yerde vazge\u00e7mek\u2026
\nyanl\u0131\u015fta \u0131srar etmekten daha b\u00fcy\u00fck bir cesarettir.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 yollar\u2026
\ny\u00fcr\u00fcnerek de\u011fil\u2026
\nb\u0131rak\u0131larak biter.
\nVe baz\u0131 ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7lar\u2026
\nancak vazge\u00e7tikten sonra ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
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