{"id":174,"date":"2026-04-13T02:11:58","date_gmt":"2026-04-12T23:11:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/?p=174"},"modified":"2026-04-13T02:22:06","modified_gmt":"2026-04-12T23:22:06","slug":"bir-ciklet-bir-ceket-ve-kader","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/2026\/04\/13\/bir-ciklet-bir-ceket-ve-kader\/","title":{"rendered":"Bir ciklet, bir ceket&#8230;Ve Kader"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><em>Bazen k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck bir \u015fey, hi\u00e7 beklemedi\u011fin bir kap\u0131 a\u00e7ar.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00d6zg\u00fcr ve ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z bir i\u015f kurmak istiyorsan\u2026<\/p>\n<p>senden daha iyilerini yan\u0131na alma cesareti g\u00f6sterebilmelisin.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bir e\u011fitimde duymu\u015ftum bu s\u00f6z\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>Ne kadar do\u011fru oldu\u011funu\u2026 sonradan ya\u015fayarak anlad\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Asker arkada\u015f\u0131m \u0130lhan\u2019\u0131 sisteme dahil ederken,<\/p>\n<p>asl\u0131nda fark\u0131nda olmadan bunu yap\u0131yordum.<\/p>\n<p>Ona hep \u015funu s\u00f6yl\u00fcyordum:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBu i\u015fi benden daha iyi yapacaks\u0131n.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ger\u00e7ekten de \u00f6yle oldu.<\/p>\n<p>Ama bunun ne anlama geldi\u011fini\u2026 y\u0131llar sonra anlayacakt\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Bir sonbahar ak\u015fam\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Adapazar\u0131 Bulvar\u0131\u2019nda bir \u00e7ay bah\u00e7esinin teras\u0131ndayd\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Hava serinliyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Masam\u0131zda a\u00e7\u0131k renk \u00e7aylar,<\/p>\n<p>kocaman kutular,<\/p>\n<p>arada a\u011fz\u0131m\u0131za att\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z tabletler vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Kar\u015f\u0131 masadaki iki gen\u00e7 k\u0131z\u0131n bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 fark ettim.<\/p>\n<p>\u015ea\u015fk\u0131n\u2026 hatta biraz \u00fcrkektiler.<\/p>\n<p>Dayanamad\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHay\u0131rd\u0131r?\u201d dedim.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOnlar ne?\u201d dediler \u00e7ekinerek.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fcl\u00fcmsedim.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEk g\u0131da takviyelerimiz\u2026 \u00e7ay\u0131m\u0131z,\u201d dedim.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNe i\u015fe yar\u0131yor?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBeslenmeye destek olur\u2026 kilo kontrol\u00fcne yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sonra sordum:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00c7evrenizde kilo vermek isteyen ya da ek gelir arayan var m\u0131?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bir anda g\u00f6zleri parlad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBizim paraya ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z var,\u201d dediler.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYar\u0131n ak\u015fam 7\u2019de \u015fu kar\u015f\u0131daki salonda olun,\u201d dedim.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cToplant\u0131 var. Ben de oraday\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Geldiler.<\/p>\n<p>Emine ilgilenmedi.<\/p>\n<p>Ama Birg\u00fcl heyecanland\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAbi ben bu i\u015fi yapmak istiyorum ama son senem,\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u015eimdi y\u00fcklenme,\u201d dedim.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAma sosyal hayat\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n insanlara bu f\u0131rsat\u0131 sunabilirsin.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Birlikte el ilan\u0131 bast\u0131rd\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Ertesi sabah\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u00e7antas\u0131na yakla\u015f\u0131k 100 ilan koydu.<\/p>\n<p>Ve \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Tam 24 saat sonra telefonum \u00e7ald\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Birg\u00fcl\u2019d\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>Nefes nefese:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAbi ofiste misin? Geliyorum!\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n<p>Geldi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBeni Antalya Kemer\u2019den biri arad\u0131,\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEkstra gelir i\u00e7in\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u00e7imden ge\u00e7irdim:<\/p>\n<p>Biri dalga ge\u00e7iyor.<\/p>\n<p>Numaray\u0131 ald\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Arad\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAntalya\u2019dan ar\u0131yorsunuz \u00f6yle mi?\u201d dedim.<\/p>\n<p>Ses tonum sertti.<\/p>\n<p>\u015e\u00fcpheliydim.<\/p>\n<p>Dayanamad\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u201cUtanm\u0131yor musun?\u201d dedim.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGel ofise, sana i\u015f vereyim!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Kar\u015f\u0131 taraf sustu.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBir yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131k var,\u201d dedi sakin bir \u015fekilde.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cM\u00fcsaade ederseniz anlatay\u0131m\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ve anlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Bir hafta \u00f6nce \u0130stanbul\u2019daym\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Asker arkada\u015f\u0131yla bulu\u015fmu\u015flar.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fte\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Antalya\u2019ya gidecek olan Cengiz\u2019in otob\u00fcs\u00fc erkenmi\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Hava so\u011fuk oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in deri ceketini arkada\u015f\u0131na b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015f:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSenin otob\u00fcs\u00fcn ge\u00e7, \u00fc\u015f\u00fcme.<\/p>\n<p>Adapazar\u0131\u2019na gidince kargolars\u0131n,\u201d demi\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Arkada\u015f\u0131, Adapazar\u0131\u2019nda belediyeye girerken Birg\u00fcl&#8217;\u00fcn verdi\u011fi el ilan\u0131n\u0131 alm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>A\u011fz\u0131ndaki cikleti<\/p>\n<p>o ilan ka\u011f\u0131d\u0131na sarm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130lan\u0131 da ceketin cebine koymu\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fini bitirip \u00e7\u0131k\u0131nca<\/p>\n<p>ceketi kargoya vermi\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Ertesi sabah<\/p>\n<p>ceket Antalya Kemer\u2019e ula\u015fm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Cengiz ceketi giymi\u015f\u2026<\/p>\n<p>elini cebine atm\u0131\u015f\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ciklete sar\u0131l\u0131 ka\u011f\u0131d\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130lan\u0131n ortas\u0131 yap\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f, y\u0131rt\u0131lm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Ama alt k\u0131sm\u0131nda:<\/p>\n<p>isim ve telefon numaras\u0131 kalm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Ve\u2026<\/p>\n<p>aram\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Bir s\u00fcre sessiz kald\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Az \u00f6nce azarlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m adam\u2026<\/p>\n<p>hik\u00e2yeyi anlat\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n<p>Mahcup oldum.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00d6z\u00fcr dilerim,\u201d dedim.<\/p>\n<p>Ama i\u00e7imde ba\u015fka bir \u015fey vard\u0131:<\/p>\n<p>hayret.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o an \u015funu fark ettim:<\/p>\n<p>Bir ilan\u2026<\/p>\n<p>bir ciklet\u2026<\/p>\n<p>bir tesad\u00fcf\u2026<\/p>\n<p>ve 700 kilometre \u00f6teden gelen bir telefon.<\/p>\n<p>Bu i\u015f\u2026<\/p>\n<p>benim bildi\u011fim hi\u00e7bir \u015feye benzemiyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck bir hareket<\/p>\n<p>hi\u00e7 tahmin etmedi\u011fin bir zinciri ba\u015flat\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ve sen plan yaparken\u2026<\/p>\n<p>hayat \u00e7oktan kendi plan\u0131n\u0131 kurmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n<p>O g\u00fcn\u2026<\/p>\n<p>ciklete sar\u0131l\u0131 o k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ilan\u0131n<\/p>\n<p>beni nerelere g\u00f6t\u00fcrece\u011fini bilmiyordum.<\/p>\n<p>Ama zamanla \u015funu g\u00f6rd\u00fcm:<\/p>\n<p>Bazen bir ad\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n<p>bir kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fma\u2026<\/p>\n<p>hatta bir par\u00e7a ka\u011f\u0131t\u2026<\/p>\n<p>insan\u0131n hayat\u0131nda koca kap\u0131lar a\u00e7abiliyor.<\/p>\n<p>O ilan\u2026<\/p>\n<p>sadece bir ki\u015fiye ula\u015fmad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Y\u0131llar i\u00e7inde<\/p>\n<p>\u015fehirleri a\u015ft\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u00fclkeleri ge\u00e7ti\u2026<\/p>\n<p>ve iki binden fazla insana dokunan<\/p>\n<p>bir yolun ilk ad\u0131m\u0131 oldu.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bazen k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck bir \u015fey, hi\u00e7 beklemedi\u011fin bir kap\u0131 a\u00e7ar. \u201c\u00d6zg\u00fcr ve ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z bir i\u015f kurmak istiyorsan\u2026 senden daha iyilerini yan\u0131na<a 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