{"id":164,"date":"2026-04-12T13:40:50","date_gmt":"2026-04-12T13:40:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/?p=164"},"modified":"2026-04-12T13:45:48","modified_gmt":"2026-04-12T13:45:48","slug":"45-gun-hic-bir-sey-olmadi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/2026\/04\/12\/45-gun-hic-bir-sey-olmadi\/","title":{"rendered":"45 g\u00fcn.. Hi\u00e7 bir \u015fey olmad\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Bazen en \u00e7ok inand\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015fey, en \u00e7ok s\u0131nand\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015feydir.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cNasibin varsa gelir \u00c7in\u2019den Yemen\u2019den\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>nasibin yoksa ne gelir elden.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Rasim\u2019le o gece ba\u015flayan s\u00fcre\u00e7, k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede bamba\u015fka bir yere evrildi.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dcr\u00fcnleri \u00f6yle sevdi ki\u2026<\/p>\n<p>a\u00e7 kalmadan, enerjisi d\u00fc\u015fmeden, sadece 15 g\u00fcnde verdi\u011fi iki bu\u00e7uk kilo bile \u00e7evresinin dikkatini \u00e7ekmeye yetti.<\/p>\n<p>O sonu\u00e7 ald\u0131k\u00e7a, \u00fcr\u00fcn kendini satmaya devam ediyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Ben ise\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u015fa\u015f\u0131rmaya.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fin garip taraf\u0131 \u015fuydu:<\/p>\n<p>Her \u015fey g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn \u00f6n\u00fcnde oluyordu\u2026<\/p>\n<p>ama ben h\u00e2l\u00e2 tam olarak inanam\u0131yordum.<\/p>\n<p>Sanki bir yerde patlayacakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>O \u015f\u00fcphe,<\/p>\n<p>15 Ekim 2002\u2019ye kadar s\u00fcrd\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>O g\u00fcn\u2026<\/p>\n<p>hayat\u0131m\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131lma anlar\u0131ndan biri oldu.<\/p>\n<p>Bir e\u011fitim semineri vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cY\u00fczy\u0131l\u0131n i\u015f filozofu\u201d diye tan\u0131t\u0131lan bir konu\u015fmac\u0131 gelmi\u015fti:<\/p>\n<p>Jim Rohn.<\/p>\n<p>A\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7as\u0131 o zamana kadar ne ki\u015fisel geli\u015fimle ilgim vard\u0131, ne de b\u00f6yle isimlerle\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Oraya gitme sebebim \u00e7ok daha basitti:<\/p>\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 merak.<\/p>\n<p>Ama o g\u00fcn\u2026<\/p>\n<p>o sahnede\u2026<\/p>\n<p>sanki bana konu\u015fuyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Bir bu\u00e7uk saat s\u00fcrd\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>Ama etkisi\u2026<\/p>\n<p>y\u0131llar s\u00fcrd\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>O salondan \u00e7\u0131karken karar\u0131m\u0131 vermi\u015ftim:<\/p>\n<p>Bu i\u015fi yapacakt\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Ve bu \u00fcr\u00fcnleri kullanacakt\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Daha d\u00fckk\u00e2na d\u00f6nmeden\u2026<\/p>\n<p>telefonlara sar\u0131ld\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Bakkal sat\u0131l\u0131kt\u0131 art\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Ayn\u0131 g\u00fcn i\u00e7inde d\u00fckk\u00e2n\u0131 i\u015fletecek bir eleman bile buldum.<\/p>\n<p>Ve dedi\u011fim gibi yapt\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Bir daha\u2026<\/p>\n<p>o d\u00fckk\u00e2na girmedim.<\/p>\n<p>Garip olan \u015fuydu:<\/p>\n<p>Ben satmazken de\u011ferli olan d\u00fckk\u00e2n,<\/p>\n<p>ben \u201cal\u0131n\u201d dedi\u011fim anda de\u011fersizle\u015fiyordu.<\/p>\n<p>30 milyon teklif eden, 25\u2019e d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>25 diyen, 20\u2019ye indi.<\/p>\n<p>20 diyen, bu sefer vadeye ba\u011flad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u00e7im s\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Sonunda\u2026<\/p>\n<p>samimi bir a\u011fabeyime, cebindeki 600 liray\u0131 alarak devrettim d\u00fckk\u00e2n\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGerisini nas\u0131l rahat edersen \u00f6yle \u00f6de,\u201d dedim.<\/p>\n<p>O an \u015funu biliyordum:<\/p>\n<p>Art\u0131k geri d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f yoktu.<\/p>\n<p>35 ya\u015f\u0131nda\u2026<\/p>\n<p>yeni bir hayata ba\u015fl\u0131yordum.<\/p>\n<p>Karaa\u011fa\u00e7 Caddesi\u2019nde bir ofis tuttum.<\/p>\n<p>Be\u015f katl\u0131 bir binada\u2026<\/p>\n<p>dar, uzun pencereleri olan bir yer.<\/p>\n<p>Cam\u0131na slogan\u0131m\u0131 yazd\u0131rd\u0131m:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKilonu kontrol et, yolunu benden \u00f6\u011fren.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>A\u015fa\u011f\u0131dan okunmuyordu bile.<\/p>\n<p>Ama ben\u2026<\/p>\n<p>g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeye de\u011fil, anlatmaya odaklanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Her sabah 8\u2019de ba\u015fl\u0131yordum.<\/p>\n<p>Adapazar\u0131\u2019nda tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m t\u00fcm esnaflar\u0131 tek tek geziyordum.<\/p>\n<p>Birine anlatmaya ba\u015flamadan, yan d\u00fckk\u00e2ndakileri\u00a0 \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131yordum\u2026<\/p>\n<p>derken 8\u201310 ki\u015filik mini toplant\u0131lar yap\u0131yordum.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fcnde ortalama 10 toplant\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>80\u201390 ki\u015fiye sunum.<\/p>\n<p>Ama sonu\u00e7?<\/p>\n<p>Hi\u00e7bir \u015fey..<\/p>\n<p>Ne alan vard\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>ne soran\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Hatta\u2026<\/p>\n<p>dalga ge\u00e7enler bile oldu.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYaz\u0131k,\u201d diyenler\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBu i\u015f olmaz,\u201d diyenler\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ama ben g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm.<\/p>\n<p>Rasim\u2019de g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm.<\/p>\n<p>Bu i\u015f olmal\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Olmuyordu.<\/p>\n<p>45 g\u00fcn ge\u00e7ti.<\/p>\n<p>Yakla\u015f\u0131k bin ki\u015fiye anlatt\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 Tek bir sat\u0131\u015f yoktu.<\/p>\n<p>Bu i\u015fi birlikte yapmay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm ki\u015filerden biri de akrabam Orhan\u2019d\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6\u011fretmendi.<\/p>\n<p>Mant\u0131kl\u0131 bir adamd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ama bana g\u00f6re\u2026<\/p>\n<p>fazla temkinliydi.<\/p>\n<p>Ne i\u015fi yapmak istedi\u2026<\/p>\n<p>ne \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc almak.<\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn\u2026<\/p>\n<p>sab\u0131rla de\u011fil, dostlukla konu\u015ftum:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBir \u00fcr\u00fcn bile almazsan,<\/p>\n<p>evine ad\u0131m atmam.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>O g\u00fcn\u2026<\/p>\n<p>45. g\u00fcnd\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>Orhan\u2019\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fu olmu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n<p>Aileyi g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n<p>Kap\u0131ya geldik.<\/p>\n<p>Arabada kald\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u00e7eriden sesi geliyordu:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAli nerede?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sonra \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGelsene,\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00c7ay demlendi, b\u00f6rek var.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGelemem,\u201d dedim.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYeminim var.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Hat\u0131rlatt\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTamam al\u0131r\u0131z,\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAl\u0131r\u0131z olmaz,\u201d dedim.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAlm\u0131\u015f olman laz\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ay\u0131 uzatt\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Elini uzatt\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ay\u0131 geri \u00e7ektim.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cParas\u0131 60 TL.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ok k\u0131zd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ama verdi.<\/p>\n<p>Ald\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130lk sat\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131 yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u00e7imden dedim ki:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u015eeytan\u0131n baca\u011f\u0131 k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bundan sonra\u2026<\/p>\n<p>gelecekti.<\/p>\n<p>Ama\u2026<\/p>\n<p>gelmedi.<\/p>\n<p>3\u20134 g\u00fcn sonra Orhan\u2019la kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Heyecanla sordum:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNas\u0131l? Fark ettin mi?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNeyi?\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00c7ay\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHa o mu?\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBen onu sen eve giresin diye ald\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n<p>sen gittikten sonra \u00e7\u00f6pe att\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u2026<\/p>\n<p>O an\u2026<\/p>\n<p>i\u00e7imde bir \u015fey \u00e7\u00f6kt\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>45 g\u00fcn\u2026<\/p>\n<p>bin ki\u015fi\u2026<\/p>\n<p>s\u0131f\u0131r sonu\u00e7.<\/p>\n<p>Ve ilk sat\u0131\u015f\u0131m bile\u2026<\/p>\n<p>yoktu asl\u0131nda.<\/p>\n<p>Ama garip bir \u015fey vard\u0131:<\/p>\n<p>Ben h\u00e2l\u00e2 vazge\u00e7miyordum.<\/p>\n<p>Ne korku vard\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>ne \u015f\u00fcphe\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Sanki i\u00e7imde biri diyordu ki:<\/p>\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 \u201cDevam et.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>O g\u00fcn anlad\u0131m ki\u2026<\/p>\n<p>bazen sonucu de\u011fil,<\/p>\n<p>inanc\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131rs\u0131n \u00f6nce.<\/p>\n<p>Ve e\u011fer o inan\u00e7 i\u00e7inden geliyorsa\u2026<\/p>\n<p>hen\u00fcz g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen bir \u015feyler,<\/p>\n<p>senin yerine \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r..<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bazen en \u00e7ok inand\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015fey, en \u00e7ok s\u0131nand\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015feydir. \u201cNasibin varsa gelir \u00c7in\u2019den Yemen\u2019den\u2026 nasibin yoksa ne gelir elden.\u201d &nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/2026\/04\/12\/45-gun-hic-bir-sey-olmadi\/\"> > Devam\u0131n\u0131 Oku<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[136,165,166,170,169,167],"class_list":["post-164","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bu-yoldan-gectim","tag-ali-ihsan-sivri","tag-basarisizlik-hikayesi","tag-neden-satis-olmaz","tag-reddedilmek","tag-sabir-ve-azim","tag-satis-yapamamak"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=164"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":165,"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164\/revisions\/165"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=164"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=164"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buyoldangectim.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=164"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}